Crossroads21
Clear, compassionate support when life feels overwhelming.
Separation and divorce advice that helps you think clearly, feel supported, and move forward with confidence.
If you’re facing separation or a divorce, life can feel confusing, emotional and isolating
Crossroads21 is here to help you make sense of what’s happening, give you clear answers and take practical, affordable and manageable steps forward at your pace.
You will never be treated as “just a number” at Crossroads21. You will be treated as an individual and human being.
It’s normal to feel overwhelmed, so let’s take one step at a time.
Crossroads21 offers calm, practical guidance if you are experiencing issues as a result of a relationship or marital breakdown.
You can find all of the services here. I will help you understand your options, organise your thoughts and what next steps to take so you feel more in control, without judgement or pressure.
Whether you’re at the very start of a separation, already navigating the process, or issues have arisen years after, support and advice is available at every stage.
How I can help you…
Every situation is unique.
That’s why Crossroads21 support is flexible, personal, and focused on what you need right now.
You will never be treated as “just a number” - I’m here to listen, problem-solve and advise every step of the way…
You may want help with:
Understanding your options, before making any final decisions to separate
Talking through separation or divorce worries and what steps you need to take to protect yourself and what to do next
Thinking through arrangements for finances, children or pets including where everyone is going to live in the short and long term.
Help with how to communicate with your ex or their solicitor and resolve any issues between you both. This includes translating any legal letters and helping you draft your own responses
Preparing for conversations with a solicitor or mediator should you wish to engage with one
Helping you gather information, organising paperwork, drafting emails, talking through practical next steps and more services
Managing emotions alongside real-life decisions, like my previous and current clients have experienced
“…absolutely amazing - not only sound legal advice but practical advice as well. Honestly couldn’t tell you how much she helped me through… her advice worked so I didn’t need to proceed with further legal action….”
– Former client
“Kirsten was so understanding and easy to discuss where to go and what to do next in such a confusing and stressful time in my life. I finished our first initial phonecall feeling relief and clarity for the first time in a long time. Thankyou.
I would highly recommend her services before spending money on solicitors.”
– Former client
Focus on what you can control right now. People often come to me feeling overwhelmed, unheard, or unsure where to turn when going through a divorce or separation.
Just like many of my clients, what they value most is:
A calm, non-judgemental space to talk things through
Clear explanations without confusing legal/complex jargon
Straight-to-the-point advice and guidance - not unrealistic advice
Practical, achievable next steps to take - not impractical ones
Affordable services - pay as you go
Not being made to feel like another number in a business
Support that fits around real life
Sometimes, just having someone you can turn to, as and when you need help, can make all the difference.
Why choose CrossRoads21?
About Me
I created Crossroads21 to support people through life-changing moments with compassion, clarity and honesty. Every little decision is progress at this time, so keep moving forward.
I understand how emotional and complicated separation and divorce can be not just legally, but personally. My role is to help you slow things down, think clearly, and feel supported while you decide what’s best for you. My goal is to empower you with knowledge and help you through as much of the process as possible, giving you confidence and support. This will make you feel more in control without having to spend as fortune in fees.
You’ll never be rushed, judged, or pushed in a direction that doesn’t feel right. You are in control, meaning you contact me as and when you need me.
Why trust CrossRoads21?
I have over 15 years’ experience as a former family and divorce solicitor - you can find out more about me here.
First-hand understanding of separation and divorce challenges as I have been through it myself
Support tailored to your personal needs, at your pace
Practical, emotionally informed advice when it matters most
Take the first step towards clarity and confidence today.
Ready to take the next step?
Take a moment and let’s think this through together. If you’re feeling stuck, uncertain, or simply need someone to talk things through with, support is available.
Book a confidential session today and take the first step towards clarity and confidence.
“Kirsten is excellent. Kirsten was recommended to me by someone I know, and I was really impressed after meeting with her myself. She is extremely knowledgeable, and she also made me feel very comfortable throughout our conversation.”
— Former Client